Before this change, mpv_wait_event() could inconsistently return
multiple MPV_EVENT_SHUTDOWN events to a single mpv_handle, up to the
point of spamming the event queue under certain circumstances. Change
this and just send it exactly once to each mpv_handle.
Some client API users might have weird requirements about destroying
their state asynchronously (and not reacting immediately to the SHUTDOWN
event). This change will help a bit to make this less weird and
surprising.