The recent change of waking up the playback thread using a wakeup pipe
doesn't work on windows, because windows is horrible. So use a condition
variable instead to wake up the thread. To make things worse, jackaudio
is also horrible and "disallows" the use of mutexes, so all we can do is
implementing a half-solution that is not race condition free.
It would probably better to give up on this lock-free crap in the pull-
API audio path.
Mostly untested.